⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ "I wish I had read this book years ago. It’s changed how I see myself forever."
From the international bestselling author of Raising Girls Who Like Themselves and Bringing Up Boys Who Like Themselves...
...a memoir for women.
(Because we should get to like ourselves too!)
Once you understand why you’ve spent years feeling ‘not enough,’ you’ll finally be free to stop believing it. This book shows you how.
For years, women have been taught to play by the rules: be agreeable, selfless, and put everyone else first.
But what if those rules aren’t ladders to success but actually snakes?
What if breaking free from Good Girl conditioning is the key to living a life of confidence, self-worth, and true happiness?
What you’ll discover inside
✨ Raw and honest storytelling – Kasey Edwards shares her own journey of overcoming self-doubt, trauma, and the pressure to be ‘good enough.’
✨ A roadmap to learning to like yourself – Learn how to break free from toxic beliefs and embrace your true worth.
✨ Powerful mindset shifts – Redefine love, success, and self-acceptance on your own terms.
✨ Inspiration to change your life – This book will help you find the courage to stop settling and start thriving.
Book blurb
A Good Girl is acutely aware of everyone’s emotional state. Except her own.
She was praised for not being difficult like other girls.
She must never get too big for her boots and must always be grateful. So damn grateful.
She masks her own needs, dreams and fears so thoroughly that she loses herself.
Until one day her smile falters, her serenity cracks and a tiny, long-forgotten voice dares to whisper, 'What about me?'
And then all hell will break loose.
Bestselling author of Raising Girls Who Like Themselves Kasey Edwards has helped thousands of families raise kids to believe in themselves. She decides it’s time to apply her research and strategies to herself.
Her journey of learning to like herself unpicks the worth-crushing beliefs taught to girls.
But it’s not just Kasey’s story. It’s about all of us.
Raw, irreverent, and deeply relatable, Kasey dares to say what many women think but few say out loud.
This poignant memoir will confirm what you’ve long suspected — that you deserve more. And it will show you how to rediscover who you were always meant to be. Then you too can say, "Goodbye good girl, hello me."
What readers are saying...
"I’m in my sixties, and this book has made me finally realise I need to question my ingrained beliefs to change my perspective ON ME!"
"This book is like a warm bath."
"I want to snuggle into bed and read this book over and over."
"You could have been writing about me. Thank you sincerely for sharing your story."
"I love your good girl book, I resonate with absolutely everything you say. I am the quintessential nice good girl. Even at nearly 66 I am still not quite who I need to be, putting everyone else's needs before my own. I will work on your messages because I fully agree with it all!!!! Thank you !"
This book is perfect for you if...
- You’ve spent your life trying to be a "good girl" but still feel not enough.
- You struggle with self-worth, people-pleasing, or setting boundaries.
- You’re done with toxic beliefs and ready to reclaim your confidence.
- You’ve faced childhood trauma, toxic relationships, or low self-esteem.
- You’re tired of chasing approval and want to value yourself.
- You believe in self-empowerment and want to help the next generation do the same.
- You love raw, relatable stories like Untamed and The Gifts of Imperfection.
- You want your life to be, well, easier.
A message from Kasey
Could Goodbye Good Girl, Hello Me be the permission slip you need?
Here’s what I know for sure after 17 years of researching self-worth (and actively cultivating my own!):
✅ If you’ve ever suspected you deserve more, you do.
✅ You cannot fill your bucket with other people’s dreams and expectations.
✅ Self-esteem isn’t fixed in childhood—it’s never too late to learn to like yourself.
✅ The person you’ve been waiting for to change your life is you.
✅ Every journey towards liking yourself starts with one decision: choosing to believe you’re worth it.
And that’s exactly why I wrote Goodbye Good Girl, Hello Me.
For too long, we’ve been conditioned to strive, please, and prove our worth—only to end up exhausted, wondering why we still don’t feel like we’re enough.
This book is my way of handing you the permission slip I once needed myself: to unlearn the expectations that don’t serve you, to stop waiting for external validation, and to finally step into the life you actually want.
I hope it makes your heart sing. 🌷